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SignUp Now!Everyone has to love themselves to be their best or even to survive to some extent but to say that everything must be on that person, well thats not right, it rings alarms that something is wrong.
I know what you mean, having experienced a similar thing a while back I know the feeling, its not a good thing and then when the person gets all they can out of you and realise you are of no help any longer, they just totally forget you like you never existed and go about their business on to the next opportunity.
Sometimes it can be said they are opportunists but I like to think they are just people that care nothing about anything or anyone except themselves. It is a very emotionally damaging experience especially for weaker personalities.
Yup I the more I learn the more amazed I am by how easily these behaviors are overlooked by well meaning individuals, often to their detriment. All we can really do is keep learning and be empowered by that knowledge to avoid sticky situations with such people.
Since this thread was started, I've identified two narcs:
Mr. Walter Keane from Big Eyes
and
Lionel Luther in Smallville
He's scary at times lol I thought he would be nice after awhile but nope! Back to the scary mannerisms!